Last year 2011, was a challenging year for me.. a big changes for my family .. we migrated to Australia ... Went through a lot of uncertain circumstances, which is really tough.. phew~ but is already over.. is another new year now.

From a working mom converted to become a full time housewife. This is totally a huge changes for me, especially mentally. I used to have lots of friends/colleagues to chat with during my day-to-day activities, but now only to my own family members, my kids + husband (especially during school holidays). I met some new friends, mostly my son's classmates' parent ... chat while waiting for the kids at school... Luckily, I still can online to catch some chats with my friends over msn/yahoo during some 'gap's between my busy routine jobs . Well, I have to say, I still not really adjusting myself with this new role. Sometimes really felt very emotional and no direction. I hope on this new year i can make some changes to my daily jobs ...erm.. still in the very initial stage of planning..

Facing my partner everyday ... at the very beginning of our stays over here, facing a lot of uncertain situations caused a lot of conflicts and argument with my husband, which came to a stage that I am speechless to him and had a second thought of our marriage. Always, kids come first.. our existing life had stable, relationship had improved ..

I was lucky that my mom with me when we first came to aus. She did help me a lot as we need to settle a lot of stuffs, is hard if we gonna always bring out the lil one.. Mom always the best!! Without her, our path will be even more tough ... Thanks, Mom.

My son started his prep year in primary school.. This year going to be Grade 1 by Feb. My elder dotta going to start the kinders 3 yrs old class ... is only twice a week, she is more independent which make me less worries on her. Lil one getting very cheeky and naughty nowadays.. very fast in picking up new thing as got big bro and big sis to follow..

Hopefully this year thing will getting even better and smooth. Happy New Year and Gong Xi Fa Cai to all my friends and their families !!

visiting fire station...when they learn about that..

Here is the video clip i took ... he received his certificate from his principal... I will upload the DVD that prepared by his class teacher on their whole year events... :)

Do they think the wife got PLENTY OF TIMES at home... ?? Shaking legs ...?? Mmm... just some little houseworks need to be done ?? Well.... I guess so....

As for me... early morning... till the minute i sleep... there are always things for me to do... esp with 3 little monsters/angels.. House never get tidy... always got cups to wash, plates to wash... thing to pick up from the floor.. Out of my daily job.... their meals... laundry... bath... Me only can on and off ... catch some 10 or 20 min in between to check mails or have a little chat with my friends over net.. i will be on and off 'disappear' during a chat.. (luckily my friends do understand my situation ..hhaha else will not want to chat with me )... Fetching kid to/from school... getting the kids to take naps... kids school homework... getting them to sleep... phew~~ do we really got times?? Mm... might want the 'husband' to try to exchange the role for a day to experience it...

Might gonna ask my own husband on this then =.=

Not sure since when... I need a coffee for a day .... Even during my pregnancy..

1st kid : more strict... no coffee at all since pregnant..

2nd kid : mm..on and off 'curi' a bit ...

3rd kid : everyday 1 cup of coffee till my boss warn me whenever he saw me drink coffee "Eh. .. you want yr bb skin like 'kopi-o' ?"

I know is not really good to drink coffee... but I always make it a cup per day, not more than that.... I just cant stop missing the aroma of the coffee... the smells... well... my hubby said 'u addicted!' (always 'ngo' me whenever i drink it) :p

Especially now, a fully time homemaker ... somehow like lost direction in my life... or myself... taking care of 3 kids by myself is really not a easy job...i took it very serious at initial stage... make me so tense, as I want to make my 'job' so efficient... till a point... I know i need a break .. or somehow a balance between me and my 'job' ... I need to have space to breath... Coffee is one of the compliment i can give to myself everyday for the hard 'job'...

Wells... coffee and me... can't be separated...:)