try to note down before i forgot...
Day 1: mommy set alarm at 6.30 am, try to wake up get ready everything.. day before already brainstorming him that we will go school for fun, games... Make sure he had a good afternoon nap and bring him to bed at 10 pm...
7.30 am: Hao still sleeping...
7.45 am: Got to wake him up... manja a bit.. get him eat some bread... want to apply the butter and kaya by himself and ate slowly... finally ... get him wear uniform, ok. Refuse to wear the pant, want to wear own pant... fine... thinking reach school only get him wear that...
8.30 ++ am : Late to school ... first day already late :p
8.30 - 11 am : so far he is ok, but i need to be there... he refused to queue up, refused to 'fold arm'... activities started with playing some toys --> go playground (slides,etc) --> animal naming --> wash hand -->snack -->wash hand --> numbering (free sticker) --> drawing --> singing --> End.
Day 2
Still want to go school, today a bit earlier, he still refuse to queue up, refuse to put on uniform pant, refuse to put on apron when drawing session, stubborn boy :( ...
playing toys (different with 1st day) --> playground (kicking balls this time, Hao's favourite, he very very enjoy it) --> Learning alphabets --> wash hand/snack/wash hand --> drawing --> End.
Today he fren with his neighbour 'fei fei ko ko' (quite big size).. both of them chatting, not sure what they toking about... fei fei koko passed him the bread when snack time... both of them 'make noise' to yell more more ... when given nugget times..hahha..
Day 3:
Planned to slowly 'let go'.. and arrange the transport lady today, told her i going to take her car back, let my son familiar a bit with her...
Once he settled down on his chair, we slowly move out, i informed teacher and assistant that i will be waiting at receiptionist area...
Expected, a while only, heard he crying and yelling for 'ma ma'... eik.. try to ignore, as I know i have to... later see the assistant carried him out and point to me that i not away, just wait there, BIG MISTAKE!! he knew i was there.... so keep crying and ask the assistant to open the door and let him out... i just try to ignore (heart so pains)... after 1 hr +, he manage to 'escape' from assistant and run to door ... me really cannot ignore liao, carry him lor... just 1-2 min, stop liao, and stick to me like super glu... got to let him stick to me till finish school .. MISSION FAILED.
Teacher said maybe ask the father to fetch him tomolo, me dont go... Principal said maybe ask me just go off next day, then he know no choice and will choose to accept the 'fact' .. Mrs Loh (british lady-Principal) told me she found boys are more stick to mommies and girl more easier to adapt.. the 3 new girls already settled down on day3, while th.e crying crying one.. is all the new boys ...
Schoolmate treated him so good, see him cry... after i back to him.... is snack time, the fren beside him called Jason (his favourite fren), pass him biscuit... front guy and front girl also, took 1 biscuit and pass to him... next girl.. (i think she smaller than my son, cute little girl).. she 'mo mo' my son arm like calm him down.. she also try to hold my son hand when queue up, but my son push ppl hand away and only want mommy hand ... (10 yrs later, he will be pushing mommy hand away and only hold his girl fren hands .....hahaha...)
Day 4:
As discussed with hubby.... He will do the fetching job... Early morning, so excited to go school... i had told him my car 'spoil' liao, need to wait for uncle to come to repair... so father will fetch him to school, he no make noise and just follow father car (phew~~) .
Reached school.. when teacher try to bring him down, he refused. Hubby took him in... teacher fast fast carry him and my hubby left immediately... Heard he cry like hell and yelling for 'ma ma'... but got to leave him alone to face the fact... else forever will not let go...
me worry for the whole morning.... 11 am ++ hubby go fetch him.. waiting there, expecting he will be carried out with 'cry cry face' or red red eyes... We had under-estimate him..hehe.. he follow the queue and come out... taking his own school bag, saw the father, put a nice smile on his face... very happy and enjoy face, no more cry cry..... GOOD BOY!!!
Teacher told that, he only cry for a while and ok liao... phew~~~
tomolo will be no school, parent meet teacher day for old student... so my son no need to go school... let see how it goes next week...
Anyway, Hao, mommy proud of you !!!
p/s: pix... come in tomolo, today forgot to bring my camera... hehe
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