Sorry for no updates recently.... as I had delivered!!
My dotta... earlier 15 days as duedate should be 20 July... but she cannot wait to meet the family.. hehe.. 5 July kicked and water bag burst.... and took me about 2 hrs for the whole process (water bag burst --> delivered) :)
Her name : Voon Ke Qin (邬岢芩)
DOB : 5 July 2008, 1.41 am.
Place of Birth : SJMC
Weight : 3.36 kg
I post the pix later ya... as i not sure where my hubby save the pix to :p
more to updates when i free... still in confinement... actually a lot to updates on confinement lady stuff (give me lot of headache)... and my son as well... oh ya.. after 1 mth ++ of school, he start enjoying going to school already ....:) (jeannie: you no need worry on your son and go ahead with your son school plan then...)
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Ah Po RIP...
Recently was quite busy... works + family...
Son slowly get use of school, which make me more relief... but still on and off... kids still kids...
Expected.. easily get flu, cough... but find out some positivie thing as well.. He become more easier to mixed around with 'stranger' than always stick to 'mommy' if stranger around... more thing to talk, more thing to share with ppl.... this is what I want... as later i will deliver his sister soon... I cannot take care of him 100% ... and existing school driver will become his future baby sitter and his sis as well... He getting more familiar with her... I not so worry on my dottas as she not yet start to recognise ppl, my son i want him to adapt slowly on the changes step by steps... dont want to get him a big shock on go school, go bb sitter instead of taking care of grandma... arrival of little sister ...
Last wk.. my hubby grandma passed away... what a sad new..:( She is such a kind kind 'lau ma', 90 yrs old ... always telling us story on how she came from china to msia.. how she applied the citizen by going thru the 'malay' language that she dont know... like to eat and sleep ..hehe.. whever tell to bring her go out eat, sure very excited like kids... She started to see 'invisible' things early of April.. so everyone had some 'hints' on her 'leaving'... She really go in PEACE, w/o any suffer... early morning of wed, as usual, my mil wake her up for bfast and medicine at around 10 am.. only found out she is 'gone'... her face is just like sleeping... even on her funeral (3rd day), she looks like just sleeping ...
I told my son that 'lau ma' no longer stay in 'ah ma' house... she travel by ship, go far far away, looking for her own mother.... I said ah ma very sad and cry, we go visit + sayang 'ah ma'... My son tell me 'oh... ok... ah ma ah... kwai kwai lar... Lau Ma go kai kai far far lar...looking for Lau Ma mama ... later Lau Ma buy u sweet, dont cry cry ,ok?? :) .... 'Lau Ma'... RIP ......
Son slowly get use of school, which make me more relief... but still on and off... kids still kids...
Expected.. easily get flu, cough... but find out some positivie thing as well.. He become more easier to mixed around with 'stranger' than always stick to 'mommy' if stranger around... more thing to talk, more thing to share with ppl.... this is what I want... as later i will deliver his sister soon... I cannot take care of him 100% ... and existing school driver will become his future baby sitter and his sis as well... He getting more familiar with her... I not so worry on my dottas as she not yet start to recognise ppl, my son i want him to adapt slowly on the changes step by steps... dont want to get him a big shock on go school, go bb sitter instead of taking care of grandma... arrival of little sister ...
Last wk.. my hubby grandma passed away... what a sad new..:( She is such a kind kind 'lau ma', 90 yrs old ... always telling us story on how she came from china to msia.. how she applied the citizen by going thru the 'malay' language that she dont know... like to eat and sleep ..hehe.. whever tell to bring her go out eat, sure very excited like kids... She started to see 'invisible' things early of April.. so everyone had some 'hints' on her 'leaving'... She really go in PEACE, w/o any suffer... early morning of wed, as usual, my mil wake her up for bfast and medicine at around 10 am.. only found out she is 'gone'... her face is just like sleeping... even on her funeral (3rd day), she looks like just sleeping ...
I told my son that 'lau ma' no longer stay in 'ah ma' house... she travel by ship, go far far away, looking for her own mother.... I said ah ma very sad and cry, we go visit + sayang 'ah ma'... My son tell me 'oh... ok... ah ma ah... kwai kwai lar... Lau Ma go kai kai far far lar...looking for Lau Ma mama ... later Lau Ma buy u sweet, dont cry cry ,ok?? :) .... 'Lau Ma'... RIP ......
Friday, June 13, 2008
孩子, 妈妈放手了..
儿子,
上学了,
看见你很没有安全感的拉我的手不放,
我心里真的很难受,
当我悄悄的离开,
然后传来的是你的哭喊声,
妈妈好心疼...
忍耐着不理会你..
那一小时真难过..
你还是"逃脱", 飞奔到我怀里..
抱着你那一刻,
妈妈眼泪也飙,
赶紧找个没人的地方抹了...
好丢脸哦 ! (辛好老帅没看见.. :p)
邻桌的小女孩要牵你的手,
你撇了她的手,说要妈妈手,
十年..二十年后,你撇的该是妈妈的手,握的可是女朋友的手..
上学了,
看见你很没有安全感的拉我的手不放,
我心里真的很难受,
当我悄悄的离开,
然后传来的是你的哭喊声,
妈妈好心疼...
忍耐着不理会你..
那一小时真难过..
你还是"逃脱", 飞奔到我怀里..
抱着你那一刻,
妈妈眼泪也飙,
赶紧找个没人的地方抹了...
好丢脸哦 ! (辛好老帅没看见.. :p)
邻桌的小女孩要牵你的手,
你撇了她的手,说要妈妈手,
十年..二十年后,你撇的该是妈妈的手,握的可是女朋友的手..
孩子,你得坚强..
你要明白,
假如妈妈不放手,
你怎能学会放手呢?
Tuesday, June 10, 2008
Hao go school !!!
try to note down before i forgot...
Day 1: mommy set alarm at 6.30 am, try to wake up get ready everything.. day before already brainstorming him that we will go school for fun, games... Make sure he had a good afternoon nap and bring him to bed at 10 pm...
7.30 am: Hao still sleeping...
7.45 am: Got to wake him up... manja a bit.. get him eat some bread... want to apply the butter and kaya by himself and ate slowly... finally ... get him wear uniform, ok. Refuse to wear the pant, want to wear own pant... fine... thinking reach school only get him wear that...
8.30 ++ am : Late to school ... first day already late :p
8.30 - 11 am : so far he is ok, but i need to be there... he refused to queue up, refused to 'fold arm'... activities started with playing some toys --> go playground (slides,etc) --> animal naming --> wash hand -->snack -->wash hand --> numbering (free sticker) --> drawing --> singing --> End.
Day 2
Still want to go school, today a bit earlier, he still refuse to queue up, refuse to put on uniform pant, refuse to put on apron when drawing session, stubborn boy :( ...
playing toys (different with 1st day) --> playground (kicking balls this time, Hao's favourite, he very very enjoy it) --> Learning alphabets --> wash hand/snack/wash hand --> drawing --> End.
Today he fren with his neighbour 'fei fei ko ko' (quite big size).. both of them chatting, not sure what they toking about... fei fei koko passed him the bread when snack time... both of them 'make noise' to yell more more ... when given nugget times..hahha..
Day 3:
Planned to slowly 'let go'.. and arrange the transport lady today, told her i going to take her car back, let my son familiar a bit with her...
Once he settled down on his chair, we slowly move out, i informed teacher and assistant that i will be waiting at receiptionist area...
Expected, a while only, heard he crying and yelling for 'ma ma'... eik.. try to ignore, as I know i have to... later see the assistant carried him out and point to me that i not away, just wait there, BIG MISTAKE!! he knew i was there.... so keep crying and ask the assistant to open the door and let him out... i just try to ignore (heart so pains)... after 1 hr +, he manage to 'escape' from assistant and run to door ... me really cannot ignore liao, carry him lor... just 1-2 min, stop liao, and stick to me like super glu... got to let him stick to me till finish school .. MISSION FAILED.
Teacher said maybe ask the father to fetch him tomolo, me dont go... Principal said maybe ask me just go off next day, then he know no choice and will choose to accept the 'fact' .. Mrs Loh (british lady-Principal) told me she found boys are more stick to mommies and girl more easier to adapt.. the 3 new girls already settled down on day3, while th.e crying crying one.. is all the new boys ...
Schoolmate treated him so good, see him cry... after i back to him.... is snack time, the fren beside him called Jason (his favourite fren), pass him biscuit... front guy and front girl also, took 1 biscuit and pass to him... next girl.. (i think she smaller than my son, cute little girl).. she 'mo mo' my son arm like calm him down.. she also try to hold my son hand when queue up, but my son push ppl hand away and only want mommy hand ... (10 yrs later, he will be pushing mommy hand away and only hold his girl fren hands .....hahaha...)
Day 4:
As discussed with hubby.... He will do the fetching job... Early morning, so excited to go school... i had told him my car 'spoil' liao, need to wait for uncle to come to repair... so father will fetch him to school, he no make noise and just follow father car (phew~~) .
Reached school.. when teacher try to bring him down, he refused. Hubby took him in... teacher fast fast carry him and my hubby left immediately... Heard he cry like hell and yelling for 'ma ma'... but got to leave him alone to face the fact... else forever will not let go...
me worry for the whole morning.... 11 am ++ hubby go fetch him.. waiting there, expecting he will be carried out with 'cry cry face' or red red eyes... We had under-estimate him..hehe.. he follow the queue and come out... taking his own school bag, saw the father, put a nice smile on his face... very happy and enjoy face, no more cry cry..... GOOD BOY!!!
Teacher told that, he only cry for a while and ok liao... phew~~~
tomolo will be no school, parent meet teacher day for old student... so my son no need to go school... let see how it goes next week...
Anyway, Hao, mommy proud of you !!!
p/s: pix... come in tomolo, today forgot to bring my camera... hehe
Day 1: mommy set alarm at 6.30 am, try to wake up get ready everything.. day before already brainstorming him that we will go school for fun, games... Make sure he had a good afternoon nap and bring him to bed at 10 pm...
7.30 am: Hao still sleeping...
7.45 am: Got to wake him up... manja a bit.. get him eat some bread... want to apply the butter and kaya by himself and ate slowly... finally ... get him wear uniform, ok. Refuse to wear the pant, want to wear own pant... fine... thinking reach school only get him wear that...
8.30 ++ am : Late to school ... first day already late :p
8.30 - 11 am : so far he is ok, but i need to be there... he refused to queue up, refused to 'fold arm'... activities started with playing some toys --> go playground (slides,etc) --> animal naming --> wash hand -->snack -->wash hand --> numbering (free sticker) --> drawing --> singing --> End.
Day 2
Still want to go school, today a bit earlier, he still refuse to queue up, refuse to put on uniform pant, refuse to put on apron when drawing session, stubborn boy :( ...
playing toys (different with 1st day) --> playground (kicking balls this time, Hao's favourite, he very very enjoy it) --> Learning alphabets --> wash hand/snack/wash hand --> drawing --> End.
Today he fren with his neighbour 'fei fei ko ko' (quite big size).. both of them chatting, not sure what they toking about... fei fei koko passed him the bread when snack time... both of them 'make noise' to yell more more ... when given nugget times..hahha..
Day 3:
Planned to slowly 'let go'.. and arrange the transport lady today, told her i going to take her car back, let my son familiar a bit with her...
Once he settled down on his chair, we slowly move out, i informed teacher and assistant that i will be waiting at receiptionist area...
Expected, a while only, heard he crying and yelling for 'ma ma'... eik.. try to ignore, as I know i have to... later see the assistant carried him out and point to me that i not away, just wait there, BIG MISTAKE!! he knew i was there.... so keep crying and ask the assistant to open the door and let him out... i just try to ignore (heart so pains)... after 1 hr +, he manage to 'escape' from assistant and run to door ... me really cannot ignore liao, carry him lor... just 1-2 min, stop liao, and stick to me like super glu... got to let him stick to me till finish school .. MISSION FAILED.
Teacher said maybe ask the father to fetch him tomolo, me dont go... Principal said maybe ask me just go off next day, then he know no choice and will choose to accept the 'fact' .. Mrs Loh (british lady-Principal) told me she found boys are more stick to mommies and girl more easier to adapt.. the 3 new girls already settled down on day3, while th.e crying crying one.. is all the new boys ...
Schoolmate treated him so good, see him cry... after i back to him.... is snack time, the fren beside him called Jason (his favourite fren), pass him biscuit... front guy and front girl also, took 1 biscuit and pass to him... next girl.. (i think she smaller than my son, cute little girl).. she 'mo mo' my son arm like calm him down.. she also try to hold my son hand when queue up, but my son push ppl hand away and only want mommy hand ... (10 yrs later, he will be pushing mommy hand away and only hold his girl fren hands .....hahaha...)
Day 4:
As discussed with hubby.... He will do the fetching job... Early morning, so excited to go school... i had told him my car 'spoil' liao, need to wait for uncle to come to repair... so father will fetch him to school, he no make noise and just follow father car (phew~~) .
Reached school.. when teacher try to bring him down, he refused. Hubby took him in... teacher fast fast carry him and my hubby left immediately... Heard he cry like hell and yelling for 'ma ma'... but got to leave him alone to face the fact... else forever will not let go...
me worry for the whole morning.... 11 am ++ hubby go fetch him.. waiting there, expecting he will be carried out with 'cry cry face' or red red eyes... We had under-estimate him..hehe.. he follow the queue and come out... taking his own school bag, saw the father, put a nice smile on his face... very happy and enjoy face, no more cry cry..... GOOD BOY!!!
Teacher told that, he only cry for a while and ok liao... phew~~~
tomolo will be no school, parent meet teacher day for old student... so my son no need to go school... let see how it goes next week...
Anyway, Hao, mommy proud of you !!!
p/s: pix... come in tomolo, today forgot to bring my camera... hehe
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