近來跟朋友閑談﹐
談的都是發生在個人身邊的事務﹐
東家長﹐西家短。。
某某人很好命。。但性格很差。。。
家家有本難念的經。。。
一位朋友提起﹕
我們的人生好比儲蓄戶口﹐
做好事就積福﹔
做壞事就折福﹔
就算你前生帶來豐厚的儲蓄﹐
但只支出而不進﹐
總有一天﹐ 一定會自食其果。。。
壞事﹐ 並不是殺人放火。。。
不肖﹐可是罪過。。
朋友﹐
還得好好注意自個的行為﹐
好好的積福吧﹗
生命可不能 take 2 oh!
Tuesday, April 24, 2007
My little monster sick :(
This morning reached office, the first thing is to make myself a cup of hot coffee... Ei.. my son sick... wake up few times .. really not enuf sleep...
- He slept at 10 pm ++,
- 12 ++ wake up... coz not feeling well, keep 'lau kai'... make noise and crying... finally make him sleep...
- 3 am ++ again, this time pressing his stomach and shout papa and pointing at the door... (telling that he is hungry)... father sleep on the matterss on floor, he thoght the father is outside there... so father made him milk.. but later he want to sleep back.. took like 1/2 hr, like cannot sleep.. fever + running nose make him not confortable... so started to play with the pillow, treat our pillow as 'horse' to ride and enjoy it.. (fainted). Finally sleep back....
- 5 am ++ 1 more times... this time feel his body quite 'hot'.. force him to eat the medicine... cried out.... but later fall into sleep due to the medicine...
finally me can have a rest till 7 am ++.. ei.. have to wake up for work :(
Hopefully he can get well soon, seeing him keep 'lau kai' and crying, feel heart broken as I cannot do anything, just hug him... :(
God bless him ya.. i hope i am the one who sick...
- He slept at 10 pm ++,
- 12 ++ wake up... coz not feeling well, keep 'lau kai'... make noise and crying... finally make him sleep...
- 3 am ++ again, this time pressing his stomach and shout papa and pointing at the door... (telling that he is hungry)... father sleep on the matterss on floor, he thoght the father is outside there... so father made him milk.. but later he want to sleep back.. took like 1/2 hr, like cannot sleep.. fever + running nose make him not confortable... so started to play with the pillow, treat our pillow as 'horse' to ride and enjoy it.. (fainted). Finally sleep back....
- 5 am ++ 1 more times... this time feel his body quite 'hot'.. force him to eat the medicine... cried out.... but later fall into sleep due to the medicine...
finally me can have a rest till 7 am ++.. ei.. have to wake up for work :(
Hopefully he can get well soon, seeing him keep 'lau kai' and crying, feel heart broken as I cannot do anything, just hug him... :(
God bless him ya.. i hope i am the one who sick...
Friday, April 20, 2007
不需要珍藏 , 而是珍惜。
這篇文章若你讀過不妨再讀一遍 ,感覺真是不同。
美麗的東西其實不需要珍藏 , 而是要珍惜。
生活中那些美麗的東西其實不需要珍藏，婚姻中亦是。
好友打來電話，說她前一段日子出了車禍，現在正在家靜養，問我有沒有時間去看看她。
放下電話，我急忙往他那邊趕。
開門的是她的先生，好友坐在客廳沙發上，腿上蓋了條毛毯。
見我進來抱歉地笑笑：沒去接你，我站不起來了。
我大驚。毯子拿掉，露出她長短不一的雙腿。我頓時呆住了。
怎麼會這樣？
好友說：在高速公路上被一輛失控的大卡車給撞的。
好友拍拍身邊的沙發讓我坐下，待我擦乾了眼淚，她叫先生把輪椅推過來。 看見嶄新的輪椅心頭又是一痛，看著好友的先生把她抱上輪椅，感覺真是觸目驚心，她曾經有多美的一雙腿啊！
好友讓我推她進了臥室，指著衣櫥讓我打開。
我上前打開，裡面是一件漂亮的象牙白吊帶裙，裙長及膝，兩條纖細的吊帶中間隨意搭著條透明的銀灰色真絲長披肩，上面用銀絲繡著柳葉圖案，標明價格的商標小吊牌還掛在上面。
好友讓我把裙子和披肩都取下來，拿在手裡細細地撫摸，比在身上給我看：好看嗎？
我的鼻子酸酸的：真好看！
好友把裙子疊好遞到我手上：送給你。我連忙擺手。
好友低著頭：你想我以後還用得著嗎？一句話，兩人又迸出眼淚。
好友又拿出個白色的鞋盒，打開來是雙漂亮的白色 六英寸 高跟鞋，她說：這鞋和裙子是配對的。
我點點頭：真漂亮！
好友的眼睛深深地看著窗外，過了一會兒才轉過頭來，無比傷感地慢慢對我說：你知道，當我發現我以後永遠是現在這樣，心裡最遺憾的是什麼？
我最遺憾的是我再也不能穿漂亮的裙子了 .....
我知道我的腿很長很美，尤其穿這種露著小腿的裙子更好看。
我有很多漂亮的裙子，車禍後我都送人了。
只是這一件是我最喜歡的，我一直珍藏著捨不得穿，總想要等到一個最特別的日子，一個與眾不同的日子和場合，但好像日子每一天都很平常都不特別，我也就永遠失去了穿它的機會。
她停了一下，拉過我的手：現在我知道美麗的東西永遠也不要去珍藏，不要珍藏著去等待不確定的特別的日子。
從好友家出來，天已經很晚。
我懷抱著這件美麗昂貴的裙子、披肩、皮鞋坐在車內，腦子裡好友傷殘的雙腿和美麗的裙子交疊在一起不停地閃現，心痛到抽搐成一團那些 "重要的日子 "、 "特別的日子 "也許將來還會出現在她的生活 ?，但漂亮的露著小腿的裙子和美麗的 六英寸高跟鞋已經不存在於她的字典裡了。
其實，生活裡我們常常把自認為最美麗最珍貴的物和事都細心收藏，總想要等到一個重要的場合、一個合適的時候、一個特別的機會才肯拿出來展示。
回到家，先生還在邊看電視邊等我。
去臥室換上裙子、鞋子、披肩出來，先生眼睛一亮：天啊！你真漂亮！這些東西都是哪裡買的？
我搖搖頭，對他說是好友送的，因為她再也不能穿裙子了，因為她沒有腿了。
先生的眼睛黯淡下去，拉我坐下拿過裙子看著上面的標籤說：怎麼回事？
這是三年前買的，但裙子還是新的。
我的淚又湧出來：她買了好久，她以為總有一天她會穿上，她一直在等一個特別的日子 ……先生摟過我 ，撫著我的頭髮：那個特別的日子從來沒有來，是嗎？
第二天早上起，先生已經在廚房裡忙碌，當我睡眼惺忪走進廚房，看到餐檯上擺放著早餐，裝早餐的是幾只象牙瓷的盤子，那是兩年前我在一次展示會上買的，盤子表面的光澤非常細膩，周邊點綴著紅的草莓和細小的綠葉。這會兒裡面盛著只黃白的荷包蛋，非常好看。
我知道先生一直不讓我拿出來用，怕失手砸碎了再也配不成一套，他常說將來有一天搬了大房子需要請客的時候七零八落的不好看。
今天早上不知道他幾點鐘起的床，用了多久才把這套收藏在儲藏室的碟子找出來。
吃完早餐，我搬了張凳子去開一排吊櫃的門，那裡收藏著整套各式各樣的從買回來後就束之高閣的雕花水晶玻璃酒杯。
那是我陸陸續續買回來的，有的只在過年請客時用過 一兩 次，有的從來沒用過。
每次用完都趕緊收起來，怕被孩子打碎，總想等孩子長大到不會失手打碎的年齡再拿出來用的，但我發現我一直都覺得他會打碎，不管他是 2歲還是 12歲。
所以這些美麗的食具、酒具平時是絕不擺上我們家的餐桌。
現在我把它們通通搬上餐桌，我不要再等到不確定的某個特別的、不平凡的日子。
那些美麗的東西，我現在隨時都要看到。
中午先生和孩子去了百貨公司，我坐下來給先生寫一張生日卡片，儘管他的生日已經過去一周了。
以前我每次想寫封信給他，表達一下濃郁的情意，感謝他對我這麼多年的寵愛和包容，我甚至想讓他知道我很佩服他很愛他，但每次總是告訴自己不用這麼急。
下一次下一個生日還會來，我甚至想 .........或者到兩個人都老得走不動了的時候再寫給他也不晚。
現在我知道並不是所有的 "明天 "都會一如既往地站在前面等我，我必須把對他的那些愛與感激隨時告訴他。
我還打電話給一家影城，告訴他們我要訂三張週末的《哈利波特》的電影票，兒子說過很多次想讓我陪他去看他喜歡的一些電影，但我總覺得自己很忙，抽不出時間陪他去看那些兒童電影，往往要他等，等到天氣好的時候、等到我心情好的時候、等到我有時間的時候 ........
總是一拖再拖，拖到所有的電影院都放過一遍了，那個 "天時地利人和 "的時間總也還沒到來。
而孩子也已經過了不需要我陪著看電影的年齡，漸漸長大離家，只留給我一個匆匆的背影和永久的遺憾 ——
我錯過了陪他看電影聊電影的樂趣，這個樂趣是再也不會回來了。
覺得悲哀。
晚上看電視的時候，先生拿出了一疊售屋宣傳單，每一張上面都印著精美的圖片，先生把它們放在我面前說：來，挑一處你喜歡的房子。
我看看先生，他以前從來不會把這種東西帶回家的，也反對我帶回來。
他一向認為自己有房子再買房子是增加無謂的開支。
這時他坐在沙發上，把其中一張挑出來給我看：這處不錯，離東湖很近，在自己家裡就可以看到湖水，院子裡有網球場和游泳池，有大片的草坪和鮮花 ……
我們可以先付頭期款，剩下的向銀行貸款，那樣我們可以住到全家人都喜歡的地方，你累了可以去樓下打球游泳，孩子和他的朋友也可以打球 ……
我看著他：你不是說你們單位會有宿舍的福利嗎？
先生說：不等了。
一來不知道要等多少年；二來就算等到了，房子也不一定是我們喜歡的。
如果一生只有百年，至少應該住在自己喜歡的地方吧。我點點頭。
生活裡那些美麗的東西其實不需要珍藏，婚姻中亦是。
畢竟，生活對尋常夫妻來說，應當把最美的東西展現在每一個今天，而不是珍藏到那些不確定的、特別的日子。
美麗的東西其實不需要珍藏 , 而是要珍惜。
生活中那些美麗的東西其實不需要珍藏，婚姻中亦是。
好友打來電話，說她前一段日子出了車禍，現在正在家靜養，問我有沒有時間去看看她。
放下電話，我急忙往他那邊趕。
開門的是她的先生，好友坐在客廳沙發上，腿上蓋了條毛毯。
見我進來抱歉地笑笑：沒去接你，我站不起來了。
我大驚。毯子拿掉，露出她長短不一的雙腿。我頓時呆住了。
怎麼會這樣？
好友說：在高速公路上被一輛失控的大卡車給撞的。
好友拍拍身邊的沙發讓我坐下，待我擦乾了眼淚，她叫先生把輪椅推過來。 看見嶄新的輪椅心頭又是一痛，看著好友的先生把她抱上輪椅，感覺真是觸目驚心，她曾經有多美的一雙腿啊！
好友讓我推她進了臥室，指著衣櫥讓我打開。
我上前打開，裡面是一件漂亮的象牙白吊帶裙，裙長及膝，兩條纖細的吊帶中間隨意搭著條透明的銀灰色真絲長披肩，上面用銀絲繡著柳葉圖案，標明價格的商標小吊牌還掛在上面。
好友讓我把裙子和披肩都取下來，拿在手裡細細地撫摸，比在身上給我看：好看嗎？
我的鼻子酸酸的：真好看！
好友把裙子疊好遞到我手上：送給你。我連忙擺手。
好友低著頭：你想我以後還用得著嗎？一句話，兩人又迸出眼淚。
好友又拿出個白色的鞋盒，打開來是雙漂亮的白色 六英寸 高跟鞋，她說：這鞋和裙子是配對的。
我點點頭：真漂亮！
好友的眼睛深深地看著窗外，過了一會兒才轉過頭來，無比傷感地慢慢對我說：你知道，當我發現我以後永遠是現在這樣，心裡最遺憾的是什麼？
我最遺憾的是我再也不能穿漂亮的裙子了 .....
我知道我的腿很長很美，尤其穿這種露著小腿的裙子更好看。
我有很多漂亮的裙子，車禍後我都送人了。
只是這一件是我最喜歡的，我一直珍藏著捨不得穿，總想要等到一個最特別的日子，一個與眾不同的日子和場合，但好像日子每一天都很平常都不特別，我也就永遠失去了穿它的機會。
她停了一下，拉過我的手：現在我知道美麗的東西永遠也不要去珍藏，不要珍藏著去等待不確定的特別的日子。
從好友家出來，天已經很晚。
我懷抱著這件美麗昂貴的裙子、披肩、皮鞋坐在車內，腦子裡好友傷殘的雙腿和美麗的裙子交疊在一起不停地閃現，心痛到抽搐成一團那些 "重要的日子 "、 "特別的日子 "也許將來還會出現在她的生活 ?，但漂亮的露著小腿的裙子和美麗的 六英寸高跟鞋已經不存在於她的字典裡了。
其實，生活裡我們常常把自認為最美麗最珍貴的物和事都細心收藏，總想要等到一個重要的場合、一個合適的時候、一個特別的機會才肯拿出來展示。
回到家，先生還在邊看電視邊等我。
去臥室換上裙子、鞋子、披肩出來，先生眼睛一亮：天啊！你真漂亮！這些東西都是哪裡買的？
我搖搖頭，對他說是好友送的，因為她再也不能穿裙子了，因為她沒有腿了。
先生的眼睛黯淡下去，拉我坐下拿過裙子看著上面的標籤說：怎麼回事？
這是三年前買的，但裙子還是新的。
我的淚又湧出來：她買了好久，她以為總有一天她會穿上，她一直在等一個特別的日子 ……先生摟過我 ，撫著我的頭髮：那個特別的日子從來沒有來，是嗎？
第二天早上起，先生已經在廚房裡忙碌，當我睡眼惺忪走進廚房，看到餐檯上擺放著早餐，裝早餐的是幾只象牙瓷的盤子，那是兩年前我在一次展示會上買的，盤子表面的光澤非常細膩，周邊點綴著紅的草莓和細小的綠葉。這會兒裡面盛著只黃白的荷包蛋，非常好看。
我知道先生一直不讓我拿出來用，怕失手砸碎了再也配不成一套，他常說將來有一天搬了大房子需要請客的時候七零八落的不好看。
今天早上不知道他幾點鐘起的床，用了多久才把這套收藏在儲藏室的碟子找出來。
吃完早餐，我搬了張凳子去開一排吊櫃的門，那裡收藏著整套各式各樣的從買回來後就束之高閣的雕花水晶玻璃酒杯。
那是我陸陸續續買回來的，有的只在過年請客時用過 一兩 次，有的從來沒用過。
每次用完都趕緊收起來，怕被孩子打碎，總想等孩子長大到不會失手打碎的年齡再拿出來用的，但我發現我一直都覺得他會打碎，不管他是 2歲還是 12歲。
所以這些美麗的食具、酒具平時是絕不擺上我們家的餐桌。
現在我把它們通通搬上餐桌，我不要再等到不確定的某個特別的、不平凡的日子。
那些美麗的東西，我現在隨時都要看到。
中午先生和孩子去了百貨公司，我坐下來給先生寫一張生日卡片，儘管他的生日已經過去一周了。
以前我每次想寫封信給他，表達一下濃郁的情意，感謝他對我這麼多年的寵愛和包容，我甚至想讓他知道我很佩服他很愛他，但每次總是告訴自己不用這麼急。
下一次下一個生日還會來，我甚至想 .........或者到兩個人都老得走不動了的時候再寫給他也不晚。
現在我知道並不是所有的 "明天 "都會一如既往地站在前面等我，我必須把對他的那些愛與感激隨時告訴他。
我還打電話給一家影城，告訴他們我要訂三張週末的《哈利波特》的電影票，兒子說過很多次想讓我陪他去看他喜歡的一些電影，但我總覺得自己很忙，抽不出時間陪他去看那些兒童電影，往往要他等，等到天氣好的時候、等到我心情好的時候、等到我有時間的時候 ........
總是一拖再拖，拖到所有的電影院都放過一遍了，那個 "天時地利人和 "的時間總也還沒到來。
而孩子也已經過了不需要我陪著看電影的年齡，漸漸長大離家，只留給我一個匆匆的背影和永久的遺憾 ——
我錯過了陪他看電影聊電影的樂趣，這個樂趣是再也不會回來了。
覺得悲哀。
晚上看電視的時候，先生拿出了一疊售屋宣傳單，每一張上面都印著精美的圖片，先生把它們放在我面前說：來，挑一處你喜歡的房子。
我看看先生，他以前從來不會把這種東西帶回家的，也反對我帶回來。
他一向認為自己有房子再買房子是增加無謂的開支。
這時他坐在沙發上，把其中一張挑出來給我看：這處不錯，離東湖很近，在自己家裡就可以看到湖水，院子裡有網球場和游泳池，有大片的草坪和鮮花 ……
我們可以先付頭期款，剩下的向銀行貸款，那樣我們可以住到全家人都喜歡的地方，你累了可以去樓下打球游泳，孩子和他的朋友也可以打球 ……
我看著他：你不是說你們單位會有宿舍的福利嗎？
先生說：不等了。
一來不知道要等多少年；二來就算等到了，房子也不一定是我們喜歡的。
如果一生只有百年，至少應該住在自己喜歡的地方吧。我點點頭。
生活裡那些美麗的東西其實不需要珍藏，婚姻中亦是。
畢竟，生活對尋常夫妻來說，應當把最美的東西展現在每一個今天，而不是珍藏到那些不確定的、特別的日子。
Thursday, April 19, 2007
Training at Amcorp
Having a 3 days training course in Menara Amcorp...
Terrible jam... wondering how the ppl work in KL have to face it everyday... maybe like CutiePrincessMommy that try to find something interesting during the jam.. but to the impatient ppl like me, really TORTURING !!!!
Day 1: I took LRT as I need to rush from Puchong to my MIL hse (in cempaka, near P.indah).. late... asking my hubby to drop me half-way at LRT station...so From Star LRT change to Putra to get to Amcorp... fine... Way back the same... found really crowded in Putra-Masjid Jamek station.. and found out that.. ppl are queueing to get into the train..(seldom saw m'sian did that :p)
Day 2: Drive there... took me about 45 min to reached there... Is raining on the way back... DAMN !!! it took me 2 HOURS to reach cempaka (P.Indah)... stuck in the jam coz of rain for 2 hrs... really get me crazy on that...
Day 3: Morning is jam... reached there already 9 am ++.. luckily the lecture start late (he used to start late)... wasting our time alot... becoz of his bad time managment, which we suppose to go back earlier, end up finsih at 6pm (course is from 9-5pm) ...luckily today no jam... and i use different way to go back...
Today really happy, use back the way to office (Kuchai lama).. then smooth and happy driving !!!
Know tat WokkingMum is taking a break now... a bit worry on her... hope she can take care of herself as well.. else the kids recover but the mommy fall into sick pula.... Wish her all the best!!!
Terrible jam... wondering how the ppl work in KL have to face it everyday... maybe like CutiePrincessMommy that try to find something interesting during the jam.. but to the impatient ppl like me, really TORTURING !!!!
Day 1: I took LRT as I need to rush from Puchong to my MIL hse (in cempaka, near P.indah).. late... asking my hubby to drop me half-way at LRT station...so From Star LRT change to Putra to get to Amcorp... fine... Way back the same... found really crowded in Putra-Masjid Jamek station.. and found out that.. ppl are queueing to get into the train..(seldom saw m'sian did that :p)
Day 2: Drive there... took me about 45 min to reached there... Is raining on the way back... DAMN !!! it took me 2 HOURS to reach cempaka (P.Indah)... stuck in the jam coz of rain for 2 hrs... really get me crazy on that...
Day 3: Morning is jam... reached there already 9 am ++.. luckily the lecture start late (he used to start late)... wasting our time alot... becoz of his bad time managment, which we suppose to go back earlier, end up finsih at 6pm (course is from 9-5pm) ...luckily today no jam... and i use different way to go back...
Today really happy, use back the way to office (Kuchai lama).. then smooth and happy driving !!!
Know tat WokkingMum is taking a break now... a bit worry on her... hope she can take care of herself as well.. else the kids recover but the mommy fall into sick pula.... Wish her all the best!!!
Friday, April 13, 2007
10 reasons why I married my hubby
Tagged by JollyAngle..cum WokkingMum. ^_^
Knew him for 1 yr ++ then start 'pak to' for 2 yrs + ... marriage life about : 3 yrs ++ wow... ngam ngam 7 yrs leh... dunno got "7 years itchy" or not .. CHOI !!!!
me very lazy in writing lar... Can i just put in point form + some little elaboration? heheh
Knew him for 1 yr ++ then start 'pak to' for 2 yrs + ... marriage life about : 3 yrs ++ wow... ngam ngam 7 yrs leh... dunno got "7 years itchy" or not .. CHOI !!!!
me very lazy in writing lar... Can i just put in point form + some little elaboration? heheh
- He will help when I exhausted. He will help everythign when i need him...no matter what jobs is it, some men will refuse on helping certain thing ,etc ...
- Confident. He is very confident on himself, which I dont really have with me... try to learn from him ..
- Fast decision maker. He can make a very firm decision once decide. Sometimes, once I had made some decisons, i not really firm on it... So he will help me to analysis the situation and explain every point to me ...
- Good temper. Hehe... Ppl that know me and him, always said I bully him... coz i am impatient ppl, u know, impatient means temper not so good also lor.... is good that 1 hard and 1 soft, if not, everyday sure 'bang' till 'pong pong' sounds...
- Know exactly what is his direction. He know exactly what he want or he should do at certain stage, which me always blur on what is my directions... and he will lead me to the right path when i out of track :p
- Good looking ... hehe.. pai say lar.. he looks 'good' to me... very leng chai..hahah.. oklar... u no need to believe me lar.... kekek...
- Cloth matching - I see some wives like need to do the matching job for the hubby... for cloth. This is no such works for me, he know exactly what cloth to buy for himself and how to match ... Less works for me.
- He will buy me gift/flowers on our annerverseries, my birthdays, valentine days.. since we start pak toh... Frankly speaking, i dont want him to spend tat money... u know .. is very exp, esp during 'peak season'. But of coz i will very happy in receiving it... This yr, i insist asking him not to buy it... if he is very very rich, then i dont mind, but i think i prefer the same amt of $$ to use in other more meaning and needed place.
- He no smoking, no alcoholic beverage for him. I dont like smokes smell... alcoholic i not really rejected, but too dpends on it will raise a lot of problems...
- Of coz ... he Loves me... hehe.. the most important thing must put 'last' mah...he loves me, my son ... our Family.. He will do whatever thing that good for us... spend $$ for exp toys... exp present.. just if he found we like it....
You know what, when i start writing the points.. i think i cannot write 10 points here... but when i start typing... all the points just come to my mind and my hand just continue type w/o pause...and like wan to write more but already reach Point 10. heheh... so... u can guess what i means ya...
I wish we can hand hold hand when we like 70-80 yrs old, walking in the park peacefully everyday ... Wish my dream come true ya....!!!
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Buzy.....and something interesting..
Times flying ... especially stay in my MIL hse ... like pass very fast.. today is wed already..hehe..
Recenlty very very busy with office works, and my company servers not so stable.. every week gives us problems for different issues, really tire on it... But of coz, learning new things and new 'lesson' as well, hopefully the lessons will stop for a while and let us have enuf rest ... : )
"Cheng Meng" just pass, and found something 'interesting' during this time... Let me share ya...
One of my fren need to go pray for 5 torms...5 torms in 4 different locations.. imagine during the 'peak' season and terrible traffic , have to go in 1 days, damn tire.... Thus, she suggested MIL to prepare the thing earlier and they go as early as possible... She told me her MIL steam 1 chic and use for 5 torms... here the story started....
After listen to her, i saw 1 news on the net...
A business man dream about his parent, complaint to him that they nothing to eat during the 'cheng meng'... said only got chic bones... After he wake up, wondering what's wrong with it, coz they had brought 1 chic there to pray the parent torm... Later he found out from the old ppl that... they go for the grandparent torm first.. and go to parent torms.. using the same chic... So old ppl said... must be the grandparents finised the chic and left the bones onli.. so when they go pray the parent using the same chic.. is actually left bones.... :D
This is the 1st time i heard of this , Believe or not... is depends ya... :)
p/s: I had forward the url to my 'fren'.. she said should let the hubby/MIL to view it as well ^ _ ^
Recenlty very very busy with office works, and my company servers not so stable.. every week gives us problems for different issues, really tire on it... But of coz, learning new things and new 'lesson' as well, hopefully the lessons will stop for a while and let us have enuf rest ... : )
"Cheng Meng" just pass, and found something 'interesting' during this time... Let me share ya...
One of my fren need to go pray for 5 torms...5 torms in 4 different locations.. imagine during the 'peak' season and terrible traffic , have to go in 1 days, damn tire.... Thus, she suggested MIL to prepare the thing earlier and they go as early as possible... She told me her MIL steam 1 chic and use for 5 torms... here the story started....
After listen to her, i saw 1 news on the net...
A business man dream about his parent, complaint to him that they nothing to eat during the 'cheng meng'... said only got chic bones... After he wake up, wondering what's wrong with it, coz they had brought 1 chic there to pray the parent torm... Later he found out from the old ppl that... they go for the grandparent torm first.. and go to parent torms.. using the same chic... So old ppl said... must be the grandparents finised the chic and left the bones onli.. so when they go pray the parent using the same chic.. is actually left bones.... :D
This is the 1st time i heard of this , Believe or not... is depends ya... :)
p/s: I had forward the url to my 'fren'.. she said should let the hubby/MIL to view it as well ^ _ ^
Wednesday, April 4, 2007
Life in MIL hse
Mmm.. few days liao... in my MIL hse, started last thursday, and we go back fri nite... Monday morning go again...
Looks good... at least i no need to bother about the dinner.... my MIL cook for that... hehe... no wokking jobs for me over there... :p
My son... he looks ok.. as got a 'fren' playing with him all the times... his cousin sister.. a 3 yrs ++ girls... nap is less but still got, as we bring the salong over there.... According to my MIL, everyday 5.30 pm onwards, he will start looking for me.. stare at the door , make noise and asking my MIL to bring him out ... when i reach home... you can imagine... he will stick me like koala bear .... :( ... i have to carry him for like 15 min, then onil slowly tipu him then fast fast go up and take shower...
Yday, i not yet go into the hse, already heard he cried loud... my MIL is carrying him... she said.. once he saw my car outside, start to cry loud, like very 'ke lian' and 'chai leong' (cantonese)... tears keep dropping, i saw also heart pains... but a while onli, i carry him and he stop crying...
Mm... 1 thing he worrying me is no 'ng ng' in the 'Ah Ma' hse... thurs and fri, no 'ng ng'.. fri nite reach home... sat and sun at home, he got 'ng ng' at home.. .monday again no... Luckiy tues noon he got ... and this early monring also got... ~phew~
My colleague (guy)... said how come u tok over phone with yr hubby.. the first hting is not like 'have you eat? etc' but is 'SHIT OR NOT?" (actually checking with my hubby the son got shit or not)...hahahahah... I told him, one day when he become father, he will know.. the thing that worry the parent everyday is :- the kid shit or not? eat or not? sleep or not?? .... he will know 1 day... ^ ^
Looks good... at least i no need to bother about the dinner.... my MIL cook for that... hehe... no wokking jobs for me over there... :p
My son... he looks ok.. as got a 'fren' playing with him all the times... his cousin sister.. a 3 yrs ++ girls... nap is less but still got, as we bring the salong over there.... According to my MIL, everyday 5.30 pm onwards, he will start looking for me.. stare at the door , make noise and asking my MIL to bring him out ... when i reach home... you can imagine... he will stick me like koala bear .... :( ... i have to carry him for like 15 min, then onil slowly tipu him then fast fast go up and take shower...
Yday, i not yet go into the hse, already heard he cried loud... my MIL is carrying him... she said.. once he saw my car outside, start to cry loud, like very 'ke lian' and 'chai leong' (cantonese)... tears keep dropping, i saw also heart pains... but a while onli, i carry him and he stop crying...
Mm... 1 thing he worrying me is no 'ng ng' in the 'Ah Ma' hse... thurs and fri, no 'ng ng'.. fri nite reach home... sat and sun at home, he got 'ng ng' at home.. .monday again no... Luckiy tues noon he got ... and this early monring also got... ~phew~
My colleague (guy)... said how come u tok over phone with yr hubby.. the first hting is not like 'have you eat? etc' but is 'SHIT OR NOT?" (actually checking with my hubby the son got shit or not)...hahahahah... I told him, one day when he become father, he will know.. the thing that worry the parent everyday is :- the kid shit or not? eat or not? sleep or not?? .... he will know 1 day... ^ ^
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