This morning... while i came up to the bedroom after preparing the bfast...
My little one wake up already ... as he always sudden awake when i not around... maybe cannot sense 'mommy smell' and wake up... kekeke..
After playing with him for a while, i told him mommy need to go bathroom for 'em em' (big business).. told him mommy stomachache...
he suddenly so excited and climbed down from bed... rush to the bathroom door and looked at me seriously say...
"wo yao kan ma ma em em" (I want to see mommy em em)... [fainted] ..
how to 'em em' while been 'watching' ???
Yes !! my son had stop wearing pampers at night... actually it started like during CNY, but after that he want to wear back.. after he pees on bed .. these few days, he refuse to wear again, so when i wake up mid nite.. i will carried him to bathroom to pee (while he half awake and half sleep )... so these few days, he did no pee on bed... Yday night, i did not wake him up during mid-night 'pee calling'...hahaha... ya.. this morning his pant still remain dry... Good Boy and Good Job !!! Big boy already... no more pampers !!! Bravo...!!!
at night, 10 am ++ mommy taking up the son sleep cloth + pampers ... pa pa ready the son 'chu chu'(trains) to be carried to the bedroom... + carrying the son up stair..Reached room, son: "pa pa ... chu chu ah?"papa: "neh... here all your chu chu"...son trying to chk 1 by 1, which one is missing (Emily, Henry, thomas, etc)all trains were there (papa been "tricked" few times before, so he make sure he took up all.. no need to get down few times)son : "papa .... siong siong ah?" (mandarine) (his little teddy bear)..papa : "alamak... okok, i go down to take"son : " wo yao na, pao wo pao wo" (mandarine) (i want to take, carry me carry me)go down and come up with the teddy bear...{ papa sweating }mommy busy changing his cloth... then he refuse to wear pampers...mommy : " ok, then you go shi shi in the bathroom". son : " ei... bu yao " and pointed to downstair (want to pee in his little 'tam tong' at downstair).. Papa try to persuade him to pee on bathroom, but he refused... papa: " OK. i bring you down, this is the final time liao, cannot go down anymore later"son : "mm... pao wo pao wo" (mm... carry me carry me).finally papa come up with him and direclty lay on bed.. no more strength + fainted ..hahaha...
Looking at my super-active son now... everyday will have new thing to come from his mind, he willl ask us to run with him, crawl with him (yes..), cycling with him... this morning even do 'Mr Bean' dancing (from the only Mr Bean CD we have).. Yday nite, while my hubby was chatting with his brother at car porch, he called the 'pak pak' loudly and knock the window (get his attention) and he make funny face to his 'pak pak' (my hubby's brother) .. pulling his ears, head turn to a side, show teeth and make the eyes small small... ya... jumping from sofa to mattress... never quietly sit down for 5 minute.... i felt a bit scare of how i handle 2 when 2nd one is delivered.. am i manage to handle to take care of the 2 fellows...?? dont have own time of rest? busy from monring to night .. ops.. is mid nite(mid night got to wake up to feed the little one for the first few mths).. How I will look like?? (yellow face) ?? with hairs simply tight up, big t-shirt and short pants.. running around the house, yelling the big one, carrying the small one .... wow.. when think of this picture in my mind, feel a bit scare already... hopefully not that too bad by then..... scare scare !!!
I was thinking i had spent less time for my 2nd kid... (still in stomach).. As for my son.. I used to talked to him always and sing at nite during my pregnancy.. Not sure is this very normal for all the momies on the 2nd or 3rd pregnancy that spent less time with the bb.. Yes, I have to focus on my son now... as 2 yrs ++, after work, bath and dinner... most of my times spend with him.. Feeling a bit 'not fair' to the 2nd one...:pI had try to 'educate' my son to love the bb.. so far so good... as he will 'feed' the bb vitamin (feeding me).. everyday.. and reminding me every night to take the 'pills' .... now he use to use hand to 'touch' my stomach and sing song to the little one... As a rewards, i told him to come near my stoamch... and said bb said 'ko ko, jie jie' (Brother, thank you!!) ... he always happy and smiling when 'bb' say thank you to him... Hopefully when the 'little bro/sis' is delivered, he will not get jealous and dislike the little one for 'sharing' his lovely mommy and daddy... ^_^p/s: oh ya... I went to gynae for 5th month checkup... my gynae try to scan and check is bb Boy or Girl, but too bad... bb show us the 'backside'..hahha.... not allow us to see it..." mommy daddy... guess guess first... let u know later..." :)
After CNY until now, reallly like very busy... till no time to update my blog :pSome pix still 'hanging' around and not posted also...Ei... my 2nd kid is coming... as my original plan is get a maid and we stay in my MIL for wkday and go back own hse on wkend.... As my mum is going back hometown, no longer help me taking care of my son.. mid of this year... my MIL can help me on that, and also help me to 'monitor' the maid to take care of my 2nd kid.... But.... my mum and my mil .... do not prefer 'maid'... as they heard too many 'cases' printed in the newspaper on how the maid 'torture' the kids... etc.... mil even advised me to send my 2nd kid to bb sitter house for day and nite, weekend only go 'visit' .... NO WAY!!!... I really cannot take it, NO ONE can separate my kids with me.. i want to see them everyday, stay with them and sleep with them every night... I wondering how come the old ppl will have this kind of 'idea' ???? Ya.. I know i will be more stress and busy .... especially after work, i will need to take care of my kids... but since I had decided to get pregnant and deliver a kid, I alreayd know what is my responsibilities and what I need to do ... to me ..is really "UNACCEPTABLE" ... deliver a bb, and put in 'someone' house... wkend only go 'visit' them ... unless there is really some other reasons that someone had to do that.... but definately not me at this moment...they told me maid is no good...etc. Yes, I admitted myself dont like the idea to get a maid... but somehow is necessary when we really need that.... now mil saying see can get a daytime bb sitter near my MIL hse, after i back to work, i will go and take bb back.... ei... means wkend (when i back to my own hse) i will be on my own of taking care of my son + 1 bb + housworks + cooking (if i have maid, maid can help me on hseworks) ... Let see how first, if my MIL can get a daytime bb sitter staying nearby and I can 'cope' wiht my wkend 'works'... if cannot, then i really need to get a maid then.....p/s: wondering hubby can help ah?? mm... men not so expert and 'alert' on kids and hsoueworks.. maybe apply to some men, but not all the men lor... Not to say he not helping, but i know 'someone' out there will 'understand' and 'noted' their heads on what I am saying :p
