房子 - 家和房子...

~~我的家庭真可爱... 美丽~~

曾听一个老人家说..

很不舍得离开房子,住了几十年...

当时听在我耳里, 心想: 没什麼啊..房子而已嘛...

我房子,住了五-六年....

我三个孩子, 在这成长...

这房子, 有很多回忆 ...

每一盏 灯,

每一样摆设,

都是我和我丈夫精心挑选的...

家和房子有太多连续了.....

现在,我真的体会到所谓的 "不舍得" ...

strawberry generation??

疑受情困面子书留“安息”　学院生烧炭自杀

http://www.kwongwah.com.my/news/2010/08/23/145.html

read a new that really shocked me.. 19 yrs old college boy... suicide becoz of that.. wondering nowadays the youngsters ... is it cannot take pressures or how their mind is thinking on 'Life'... there is a chinese term called 'strawberry group', which describe the youngster that not able to handle pressures ... wondering what is the root caused for this?

Too protective from parent? I means what the big deal if broke off with g/b fren?? There are a lot of valuable 'items' out there.... why their 'thinking' so narrow or to be said immature or selfish? Me a bit angry when look at this kind of news... as they never concerns of their closest family members, esp parent.

You know what... i keep thinking the root caused and wanna make sure it will not happen to my kids, how to educate them so that they will have more positive thinking, how to handle problem, a right mindset and know how to appreciate ... ...is really not an easy job .... sign........

Star Fish Boy

Nowadays, I am very busy during weekend, as i had 1 infant, 2 kids now....

My routine job scope:

Morning : bath 3 of them... their bfast

Noon : prepare lunch for every one and feeding......

Night : bath, prepare dinner and feed them.....

Basically, I dont have much time esp play with my son... My son is a super active boy, he just want to play... or disturb the sis ... make her shout loud or cried loud... or find something 'Not toys' to play with...

Last week, when i out from my kitchen, i see him in a special custom made suit.... not sure want to faint or want to laugh..... here my Star Fish boy...

p/s: fyi... is a mattress cover... he took out the mattress ( 2 pcs inside) and wear on the mattress cover and become ....... STAR FISH!

My kids...

This is the 1st time that the bro treated the sis so good... ya.. feeding the sis dinner.... not sure what happen to him ..hahhaa... as most of the time, he will make the sis shout, cry ....

haha.. but only for few mouths... he said 'my hand tire liao, qin .. u eat yourself lar....'

i said 'now you know .... everyday want me to feed you'..

after that, Qin keep saying 'i wan ko ko to feed me..'... Ko ko ran far far away and shouted 'NOPE'...

hahha... snap down this and show them in the future....

Enjoy vs kids

Recently had came across this on my mind... Most of the time, i will think like 'after my kids grow up, i can go enjoy the thing i like... for ie...shopping, dancing..etc'. I think most of the mommies out there had the same thoughts like mine...

You know, to go out with infants or toddlers.. you need to prepare a lot of stuff.. pack a big bag, filled with pampers, milk powder, bottle, waters, cloth, handkerchief etc... make sure your 'monitoring system' is strong and full with 'energy' to keep an eye on them.. esp in public area.. come back with stuff to wash, settle them (bath and change cloth) ... then only you got time to settle yourself... sounds tiring rite??

Thus, we use to say 'NOPE' whenever want to go out with kids...when thought of all the hassle and mess...

So we missed the time for friend gatherings... fashion trends.. window shopping funs.. and our kids missed these all as well... worth it?? From the other point of view.. you still taking care of your kids.. just location wise is different. We as a parent still perform the same tasks and we did enjoy at the same times as well...

Sometimes i still prefer to bring them out and 'handle' the mess/hassle for the whole process ... even is tire... but i thought this is so called "LIFE" :)