Recently had came across this on my mind... Most of the time, i will think like 'after my kids grow up, i can go enjoy the thing i like... for ie...shopping, dancing..etc'. I think most of the mommies out there had the same thoughts like mine...
You know, to go out with infants or toddlers.. you need to prepare a lot of stuff.. pack a big bag, filled with pampers, milk powder, bottle, waters, cloth, handkerchief etc... make sure your 'monitoring system' is strong and full with 'energy' to keep an eye on them.. esp in public area.. come back with stuff to wash, settle them (bath and change cloth) ... then only you got time to settle yourself... sounds tiring rite??
Thus, we use to say 'NOPE' whenever want to go out with kids...when thought of all the hassle and mess...
So we missed the time for friend gatherings... fashion trends.. window shopping funs.. and our kids missed these all as well... worth it?? From the other point of view.. you still taking care of your kids.. just location wise is different. We as a parent still perform the same tasks and we did enjoy at the same times as well...
Sometimes i still prefer to bring them out and 'handle' the mess/hassle for the whole process ... even is tire... but i thought this is so called "LIFE" :)
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Hahaha... that's 父母的心声！
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