FTWM vs FTWD

Wanted to note down this long long time ago, but always forgot and remember during my 'fire' time... hahah...

What a interesting topic ya...
"Full Time Working Mum vs Full Time Working Dad.. "

I guess most of the working mommies will happy to blog it down....
No offend to those FTWD, but i think this happen to most of the cases, of coz there are exceptional case also...

After work...
FTWM: Rush back after work... no stay back unless its' really a MUST!
FTWD: Drag and deli dela after work... {scare ppl say they rush back to report to 'wife' ? who knows what the reason..}

Early morning ...
FTWM: wake up early... to prepare bfast, or prepare dinner (if cook), or house hold stuffs.. 'hang cloth' ... mm.. just "BUSY"... rush out to work at last...
FTWD: can sleep with the kid till they wake up...prepare himself well and go for work....

when reached home ...
FTWM: take a super fast bath+dinner...(or later).. feed the kids for dinner.. make sure they eat and lil stomach is full enough b4 the mommy stomach is 'filled'..
FTWD: take bath or dinner slowly and nicely ... coz the wife will settle the kids...

at nite ...
FTWM: accompany the kid to sleep.. sometime need to wake up for hseworks (wash cloth,etc) after kids sleep..
FTWD: still can have leisure time for movies, tv, reading newspaper...even playing games...

mid nite....
FTWM : might wake up to chk the kids...
FTWD : think only hear their snoozing....

wkend ...
FTWM : might need to go market to purchase 'food' for whole week dinner... prepare and keep nice in fridge.
FTWD :... mm .. newspaper... dunno wat they do actually....

hehhe.... sounds like FTWM life is much much more busy busy than FTWD... is TRUTH. There is no offend to those FTWD... but is true that... women work more and put more efforts than men when come to family... is true that FTWD no need to deny it :p

Of coz lar.. they did help up also ... i think some others mommies blogger can continue on what I had missed out...hahaha..!!!!

Hao @ 19mths

Time flying... he is now 19 mths ++

My MIL said.. he is quite slow .. in terms of 'talking' or 'walking'... comparing with his cousin sister ( 3 1/2 yrs old lil girl) ... he only walk on his 14-15th month.. Actually to me this really doesnt matters... as long as he can eat , grow healthy and happy... that's enough for me....

Now, he only called 'pa pa'. His voice on 'mommy' will yet to reach me ... I dunno, he only call 'mommy' when I am not around... try to play with me ya... when i ask him to call me mommy, he will look at me and shout 'pa pa pa pa pa pa' ... when I am not round, ane he looking for me, will only ask my mum "mommy?" or after my car had drive out car porch, only he call 'mommy'... hahaha...

Hao words :
'Ba ba ' - when he watching Barney show... he can point to the correct type of Dinosaur from the book, that similar to his favourite "Barney" Dinosaur ...

'Bap ' - when he fart loudly...hahahah....
'Po Po' - related to any balls...
'Po Po' - my mum 婆婆 - only shout when in Emergency - like 1 time, he not behave good, when I scolded him and not allow him to get helps , he shout loud for 'popo' to rescue him...hahaha..

'Pak Pak' - (hakka:伯伯) calling his uncle (my hubby's brother cum neighbour)
'Kou' (mandarine - dog) - when see any dogs on tv or his CDs programme.
'Jie Jie' - his cousin sister... Yday nite call his cousin sister over the phone...
'Ko Ko' - my dog Coco..

mm.. wat else... { thinking.....}
Of coz lastly.. his favourite 'Pa Pa'... 1 day dunno call how many times... {make the mommy so envy.. :( }

Mm... he also like to pretend the father snoozing ..hahha.. 'ko ko ko'.. lay down and make very loud 'ko ko' sounds... and make the next door dog sounds... and when we asked "how's po po talking ah?" then he will start 'pe li pa la... ki li ku lo'.. this is how po po toking .. fainted... hahah....nowadays, he like to 'tok' a lot.. but 'Alien' language.. dunno what is he talking about ....

Even though the grandma (my MIL) said he is 'slower'... but to me I am happy with every single action or any 'words' that come out from his lil mouth... slow or fast, doesnt matter to me ... ^_^

Bukit Gasing...

Last sunday, I had followed my colleague went to Bukit Gasing for 'warming up'..

'Warming up' is for the preparation for Mount KK on Oct 07. hehehe.. Sure ppl will say 'aiyo, aunty... u 30+ lor, still can climb meh?" ...this is the reaction I got from relatives, frens...etc.. Apalar.. 30 ++ cannot climb meh, die die must prove that aunty also can climb up !!! hehehe...

Been long time no do 'jungle tracking'... meet up at 7.45 am.. start around 8 am ... I finished at 9.35pm.... sweated a lot... some places really challenging.. as the 'steps' is quite high... really got to practice few more times ... as Mount KK really no play play... :p

From starting to next point, normal speed for ladies is about 7 hrs (unless yr stamina is really good)... rest and continue at mid nite 2 am ++ to catch the sun rise at the top of the mountain... there is about 3 hrs climbing....

Anyway, I know i can do it !!!! {die die also climb up to get the certificate.... hahah.. sure hang on my hse wall .... tinted nicely ... hehehe... dream first... ^0^}

Kick boxing vs Yoga

Yday nite had tried my 1st class of Kick Boxing... actually I suppose to attend Yoga class, but really no ppl come yet.So i go to next room to try the Kick Boxing with my others frens there...

Mm... personally I prefer Yoga compare to Kick Boxing... Kick Boxing more sweating, but to me is like keep follow and repeating what the instructor doing, even the music is on, but we like not really follow the rythm of the music... dont really like it.. like robot like tat... :p (just personal feeling, no offend to those like kick boxing ya..)

After kick boxing section, is my favourite Line Dance class. Yday nite is doing Western Country Dance...hehe.. quite fun... instructor try to simplify the steps as 1 of the steps is quite hard to follow by all.. Still very enjoying this class ^o^ After practice all the 32-steps. We go for our best shot... Repeat and continuous the steps for the whole song (is about 4 minute) and is just correctly ended the song with the final step... 3 LOUD CLAPS !!! HEE HAH !!!

當結婚鈴聲響起。。。

人生真是多姿多彩。。
有些人忙著找對象; 有些人陶醉于戀愛中;
慢慢的。。就步入了所謂的“墳墓”[結婚]..

“墳墓”或“天堂”因人而異.

兩者之間﹐有個共同點。。好像都到目的地了。。
對我來說﹐其實才剛剛開步,好戲還在後頭.
新婚期過了﹐考驗才開始呢..

兩個人的相處並不簡單﹐
須要互相包容。。。
單方面的遷就﹐更不可行。

當結婚鈴聲響起。。。
就如學堂的開課鐘聲﹐
開課啦﹗﹗

~miss dance~

Hubby was away to London last wk.. as I cannot attend the Line Dance class... coz it started at 8 pm.. too late and my mum alone sure a bit hard to take care for so late... so ... sacrify my Dancing Class .. *sob sob*

Mm.. kind of lost w/o the dancng class last week... to me dancing really can release more tension than any other exercises... sweating... not sure what dance my intructor introduced last weeek ?.. wondering...

nvm.. this wk can catch up then.. since my hubby is back... and gotta call out to chk july schedule.. not sure is it any changes of the timetable.....