Wednesday, July 25, 2007

FTWM vs FTWD

Wanted to note down this long long time ago, but always forgot and remember during my 'fire' time... hahah...

What a interesting topic ya...
"Full Time Working Mum vs Full Time Working Dad.. "

I guess most of the working mommies will happy to blog it down....
No offend to those FTWD, but i think this happen to most of the cases, of coz there are exceptional case also...

After work...
FTWM: Rush back after work... no stay back unless its' really a MUST!
FTWD: Drag and deli dela after work... {scare ppl say they rush back to report to 'wife' ? who knows what the reason..}

Early morning ...
FTWM: wake up early... to prepare bfast, or prepare dinner (if cook), or house hold stuffs.. 'hang cloth' ... mm.. just "BUSY"... rush out to work at last...
FTWD: can sleep with the kid till they wake up...prepare himself well and go for work....

when reached home ...
FTWM: take a super fast bath+dinner...(or later).. feed the kids for dinner.. make sure they eat and lil stomach is full enough b4 the mommy stomach is 'filled'..
FTWD: take bath or dinner slowly and nicely ... coz the wife will settle the kids...

at nite ...
FTWM: accompany the kid to sleep.. sometime need to wake up for hseworks (wash cloth,etc) after kids sleep..
FTWD: still can have leisure time for movies, tv, reading newspaper...even playing games...

mid nite....
FTWM : might wake up to chk the kids...
FTWD : think only hear their snoozing....

wkend ...
FTWM : might need to go market to purchase 'food' for whole week dinner... prepare and keep nice in fridge.
FTWD :... mm .. newspaper... dunno wat they do actually....

hehhe.... sounds like FTWM life is much much more busy busy than FTWD... is TRUTH. There is no offend to those FTWD... but is true that... women work more and put more efforts than men when come to family... is true that FTWD no need to deny it :p

Of coz lar.. they did help up also ... i think some others mommies blogger can continue on what I had missed out...hahaha..!!!!

5 comments:

mommy of 3 angels said...

ya lor it's true...how to change this terrible phenomenon??

CutiePrincessMummy said...

tat's y ppl sing : 世上只有妈妈好(mum is the best) not papa mar...kakakka!

MY Life Zone said...

mommyOf2Angles:
think no way to change :(... coz men and women from different planet... kekeke... but we got to try balance our life lor...

cpm:
yalor... now can 'feel' the different when heard this song... MUM IS THE BEST!!

Everyday Healy said...

first time here. This post really catch my attention. So? i think the worst part is... we gals got almost no chance to change them! haha...

So.... Just accept it, and be happy! That's me! :)

MY Life Zone said...

healy:
thanks for drop by.. will go visit yr blog as well.. ya.. no way to escape.. just accept lor.. but i do believe we need to find some balance in our life...