Friday, November 25, 2011

Housewife ...


Had some chit chat with a friend of mine over here... was wondering.. what is the expectation on a husband to his housewife's wife.??

Do they think the wife got PLENTY OF TIMES at home... ?? Shaking legs ...?? Mmm... just some little houseworks need to be done ?? Well.... I guess so....

As for me... early morning... till the minute i sleep... there are always things for me to do... esp with 3 little monsters/angels.. House never get tidy... always got cups to wash, plates to wash... thing to pick up from the floor.. Out of my daily job.... their meals... laundry... bath... Me only can on and off ... catch some 10 or 20 min in between to check mails or have a little chat with my friends over net.. i will be on and off 'disappear' during a chat.. (luckily my friends do understand my situation ..hhaha else will not want to chat with me )... Fetching kid to/from school... getting the kids to take naps... kids school homework... getting them to sleep... phew~~ do we really got times?? Mm... might want the 'husband' to try to exchange the role for a day to experience it...

Might gonna ask my own husband on this then =.=

Monday, November 21, 2011

Coffee and Me

This is my daily booster..:)

Not sure since when... I need a coffee for a day .... Even during my pregnancy..

1st kid : more strict... no coffee at all since pregnant..
2nd kid : mm..on and off 'curi' a bit ...
3rd kid : everyday 1 cup of coffee till my boss warn me whenever he saw me drink coffee "Eh. .. you want yr bb skin like 'kopi-o' ?"

I know is not really good to drink coffee... but I always make it a cup per day, not more than that.... I just cant stop missing the aroma of the coffee... the smells... well... my hubby said 'u addicted!' (always 'ngo' me whenever i drink it) :p

Especially now, a fully time homemaker ... somehow like lost direction in my life... or myself... taking care of 3 kids by myself is really not a easy job...i took it very serious at initial stage... make me so tense, as I want to make my 'job' so efficient... till a point... I know i need a break .. or somehow a balance between me and my 'job' ... I need to have space to breath... Coffee is one of the compliment i can give to myself everyday for the hard 'job'...

Wells... coffee and me... can't be separated...:)


Friday, November 18, 2011

Hao fell down from monkey bar... :(

I received a call from Hao's school office on 2 Nov.. around 11 am +.. Hao's arm hurt AGAIN!! I rushed to the school with my 2 gals.. heading to the office ... and see my poor little boy... sitting on a chair with the red eyes... left arm been hanged by a first-aid scarf over his neck...

According to the teacher, he fell down from monkey bar in school playground.. Bought him to see the Dr in the nearly medical centre, Mariana medical centre.. Xray and i called the father.. Dr asked to go Hospital emergency.. as xray shown clear fracture on his bone, near the left elbow.. Luckily hubby had reached the train station and i just go to fetch him before we go to Dandenong Hospital... If not, i really doubts how i can go by myself with my 3 kids :( (poor thing over here now, no body able to help if anything happen)..

In hospital, registered and waited...Asked to go for another round of xray as Dr concerned on the alignment of the bone position... as the xray previously done in clinic not able to show clearly. Result out ... not a good new... he need to go thru an operation to fix it. called K-wires. Putting 2 pins/wires to 'freeze' the alignement during the recovery... My tears was going to out from my eyes, but i tried so hard to calm down as Hao was looking at me, do not want him to worry... Hubby with 2 dottas waiting outside as the gals make noise.. i told Hao, dr will put him into sleep, as scare might make him feel pains if he not asleep, once he wake up , the arm will be 'fixed' and i will be there always. He is very steady and brave, he just say OK.

Only 1 ppl allowed to go into the operation room... before he put on sleep... there are few ppl in charge, Dr + some assistants.. They are surprised that Hao was so calm and not crying or making any noise...Dr asked me if he went thru any operation before. I said Nope.... He said he so brave and calm... that's my good and brave boy!!

After they put him to sleep, they immediately ask me out and bring me to the children ward... ask us to wait there... and wait for their calls once done.

Is an 1/2 hr operation... and need another 1/2 hr to get him wake up... We were waiting in the children ward play room... 2 of my gals was enjoy playing there... with all the toys, blocks, art works, etc. My hubby get me to get some drinks at the other room.. 1 hr is really hard to pass.. I keep on praying since we reached hosp.. whenever i got time ... Please be with him...and everything go smooth!!

Thanks God. Nurse informed me to go to operation room, he was waking up... Nurse brought me there..and he still unconscious.. Dr said he is waking up... then when i was there, He keep on calling his name, i called him as well, and finally he opened his eyes... phew~~ make me so relief.... Thanks God!

It was 7pm+ He was pushed to his bed in the children ward and i was with him for 1 night in the hospital, sofa bed just beside him.. Next day everything seems good.. and we allow to discharge... and go to hosp for 1st wk chkup...Off to school for 1 wks + and now he is back to school!!

After 1st wk chkup, Dr said everything good, just go back hosp to pull out the wires after 5th week.. Phew~~ there will be another stage that hard for me to pass... I had watched the video from youtube on how the K-wire been pulled out... I dont think i wanna watch that on my son's arm... :(

Thursday, November 17, 2011

hailing ...

It's been a long time i did not blog around... kind of down and busy with the kids and .... phew~~ houseworks and the routine life with kids is forever never ending ~

This is the 1st hailing i experienced in my life... it was last month/2 mths ago? cant really remember.. i remembered it was a heavy rain, while i was at home with my 2 daughters .. .suddenly i just hear something noisy... while i watch out from my windows... realised there lots of 'white dots' dropping down from sky.... checking my garden.... all over.. spreading around is like a small round ice stuff.... the size is just like the 'sat ku mai' (cantonese) ...

Well... me and my Qin are so excited.. snapping picture and watching and touching the ices ... :)